![]() You’ve had some very satisfying relationships in the past. ![]() You’re happy being on your own, but even happier being with someone you love. ![]() When people let you down, it doesn’t darken your faith in humanity as a whole, or indeed in yourself. You have faith that upsets can generally be corrected, if they’re sensibly discussed. Knowing your own style can therefore help you make wiser decisions in relationships.Secure AttachmentYou’ve enjoyed a relatively stable and reliable childhood and are used to communicating your needs clearly, with a good expectation of being heard at least some of the time. This brief questionnaire, designed by The School of Life, aims to determine – to use Bowlby’s term – your particular and distinctive ‘attachment style’.Your style of attachment will determine a great deal about your attitudes to and behaviour in relationships – your capacity for intimacy, the amount of trust you place in others, your emotional resilience, even your definition of the term ‘love’. What’s Your Attachment Style?The theory of attachment was developed by the English psychoanalyst John Bowlby in the 1950s to capture different ways in which people go about forming intimate connections with others.
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